What do you see once in June, twice in November, and not at all in May?

I'm a tiny jot on the page, just a tittle, But I can change meaning more than a little. Put me in, a nice family dinner but a murderous panda Leave me out, you're eating Grandma on the veranda.

Tell a child to take a quick sleep. Or wipe your face after eating something fried deep. Essential for parties, you can get a pack for quite cheap. Don’t reuse a stranger’s item or you’ll look like a creep.

I swear I am a friend, so why do you scream? I eat the buzzers, the crawlers, and the biting things. I’m quiet and industrious, I build my own home! With me in your corner, watching, you’re never alone.

Your love for me must be acquired. Are you sophisticated or merely tired? My color’s rich until you spill some other in me; have your fill. Addiction follows when I bean you; but you don’t mine, forever keen to.