I sound like a boy you had on an ocean cruise, I come in four forms and mark the time you lose, If you add an -ing I can still be a noun and wind up in all sorts of foods

pour me on a girl to give her a good time, pour me in your car to make it run just fine, pour me in your food and I'll make it a fine dine, pour me in your eyes and you're just stupid. what am I?

wife-keeper, candle-peeper, one of sisters three. large and low is how I grow do you know me?

I have a security job, but I do not have a break. I am often seen in farming fields.

I'm made of rubber, very stretchy, and you often bring me out when you want to have a good time. What am I?