Apiary is to bees as which similar six letter word is to birds?

I am small. I glow and smolder. I am the incandescence after fiery dance.

One syllable, five letters long, I am where the heat belongs. I flicker, I flutter, I never stay still. Say my name?

In patterns of lace, my weave does flow, A catcher's charm, where waters do show. With threads so thin, by the shore I wait, A fisher's delight, when the hour's late.

I can greet you without a word, or crash against the shore. I carry sound, light, and heat, but I have no hands or floor. What am I?