Remove the first letter and it becomes hot. Remove the first two letters and you become hungry. If you're caught doing it then you will be punished.

I am known for pies, but I do not bake. You might be disgusted by me.

I must say, I'm unrefined, Turn me around and it's conflict you'll find. Short, crude, with an attitude: I cease to exist when baked or stewed.

When it comes from Dad it's usually bad. If you have blonde hair, getting them is not rare. You may hear someone at your door right before you get more.

I am blue, yet my smell is that of red paint.